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CMSOLPatricia Kalayjian, Lucinda Damon-Bach, Deborah Gussman 26 Aug 1827sedgwick-catharine watson-frances Catharine Maria Sedgwick to Francis Sedgwick Watson Massachusetts Historical Society Catharine Maria Sedgwick Papers I

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1Stockbridge 26' August 1827 --My dear Sister

I received your letter on Thursday -- -- Poor Catharine had suffered all sorts of apprehensions from the delay attending the answer to our letters -- You should, I think, my dear Frances be careful not to try her by neglects of this sort -- The great fault of her illegible character is too great susceptibility -- The painful experience of her youth has confirmed her constitutional tendencies to sadness -- and when any thing is left uncertain, she will always infer the worst -- -- -- -- Her liability to give to trifling excitements of feeling an undue importance should be counteracted as far as possible -- I know how difficult it is to counteract a strong natural current, but something may be done towards giving it a direction and making that power which useful which left to itself might prove destructive -- Constant & useful occupation is a safety valve to excessive sensibility -- but there is peculiar difficulty in Catharines occupation, It is, in its nature, irritating & harrassing -- -- and her excellent principles and dispositions will not always be sufficient to counteract this natural tendency Therefore, my dear Sister it is important that as far as possible the influence of her friends should be tranquilizing -- that little irritations, so far from being magnified to her, should as far as possible be diminished, and should not be a matter of feeling -- -- --

It seems to me it might assist a persons of excessive sensibility very much to resolve in their moments of reflection strength and serenity, to throw subjects of a certain degree of importance out of the province of feeling -- -- This would diminish the occasion of suffering, and of course tend to preserve 2 the mind from that chafed state which keeps it constantly sore, shrinking from and sensible to every touch -- -- -- I cannot bear that so admirable a creature as Catharine is should pass along without happiness and I therefore illegible want all, who are most deeply interested in her to cooperate to counteract the natural tendency of her constitution -- her cruel religion -- and the painful circumstances in which she may be placed -- --

It is a subject of great regret here that Catharine is to leave the school -- of regret and disappointment -- -- but I think she is right -- -- She has not strength to fulfil her duties in it while her anxiety about you is preying on her -- -- -- her resignation of it on the condition you propose is impossible -- The future must be left with that kind Providence who has hitherto provided -- -- --

As to our making a decision for you my dear Sister, that cannot be -- You know we shall approve your resolution whenever you have power to exercise it For my own part I have been for years hopeless of any favorable change in Mr Watson -- I do not beleive it is in his power to change his habits of mind which of course govern his conduct as certainly as the rudder does the Ship -- -- You have proposed a period of trial -- -- -- I have so much fear that you would not have the firmness requisite for an independent and energetic course, that I should fear to advise you to it --

Our late painful family experience has made me dread more than ever the sufferings from infirmity of mind -- -- I wish you to understand my dear Frances that this is the single cause of any hesitation on my part -- -- On all other accounts I should rejoice to contribute every species 3 of aid in my power to break those bonds the obligation of which have been long ago dissolved -- -- --

It is a solace to us all to think how delightfully your solitude is releived, but oh my dear Sister how much happier should we be if you made one of the cheerful faces here -- -- Harry is decidedly improving -- -- -- Robert is very anxious he should go to England -- this I have no doubt would effect his restoration, but I hope it may be obtained at a less sacrifice -- Jane has determined to take one half of Perry's house, and to begin housekeeping at once --

Poor Mrs Perry is declining fast and probably will not survive many days -- Do you know that we have had a visit from my friend Mrs Griffith -- -- Her fine, social qualities operated very favorably on the prejudices that were arrayed against her -- -- and went a good way towards dissipating them -- -- -- It is fortunate when experience dissolves unfavorable opinions, as the light of day dispels ghosts -- -- Cynthia is quite ill with a fever -- -- not in immediate danger but I am afraid very seriously diseased Clarissa appears to be mending -- -- I trust her sweet spirit is not to be withdrawn from us -- -- Mrs Appleton is still at Lenox -- where I think she may learn some lessons which applied would be worth the whole amount of her fortune --

Mrs Minot and her two boys are to be here this week for a few days -- -- -- --

My love to Lucinda and Robert and beleive me my dear Sister

truly & affectionately yoursCMS -- --

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